Hiya ladies, I'm new here and have already found everyone's comments, stories and words of encouragement to be incredibly uplifting.. thank you! so my husband and are really want to get the show on the road and start a family... but we have an issue- my husband is waiting for a hip operation. The BD logistics is a struggle as he can't thrust as such. I feel lazy that I can't do all work because I myself am recovering from a back problem.. any ideas?? Much love to all!