People who say if you can't afford this or that (not necessary things like toys for ex) then your a horrible person and you shouldnt have kids. READ THIS

Well I grew up with no reliable electricity, no inside shower, no flush toilet it was also outside and we had to burry it. We grew our food. We often had no car. And guess what. I had a amazing childhood. I didn't have many toys but I didn't need them. I didn't have computer games. I didn't need them I had a rainforest, a dog and parents that loved me. I had clothes and food to eat, books to read and a education which is so much then a lot of kids in other countries and more then some of my neighbors. As long as my kids are fed, clothed, have a roof over their head, hot water and a toilet they have all they NEED maybe not all they WANT. but no one needs all they WANT. Not even to be happy. I May not be able to afford the newest iPad but jeez even if I could I wouldnt buy one. To be honest I would like to raise my kids like I was raised. With a inside toilet and shower and proper electricity of course. But without this sence of entitlement so many people have these days. Kids don't need all the new fangled toys.give them a book or a teddy bear. Teach them to garden or cook. Do whatever you want but don't tell others that they are doing it wrong just beacuse it's not how you think.