Painful Sex

Hey ladies! 2 questions about the dirty deed:

1. My boyfriend is a decent size, both length and girth, when erect. Sometimes during sex I’m in pain, particularly when he goes too deep in certain positions. These are unfortunately the positions he enjoys most. Is there a way to better explain the pain he’s putting me through? I feel like I’ve explained the sensitive cervix thing a million times and he just keeps jack-hammering away!!

2. Is there a way to not be as sore after deep sex? It legit HURTS to pee after (not UTI pain, but more like I held my bladder all day pain). Also, extra q for anyone who squirts, does your stomach ever get hard and bloated after squirting?

This is all TMI, but my friends don’t have any of these problems 🙁