kinda lost my virginity today...?

So me and my bf have been together for almost 2 years and we finally did it kinda... it was so cute tho because he was so nervous🙈. We went nice and slow with taking eachothers clothes off and kissing slow, moving hands gently😍😍. But the problem was he only got the head in and it felt like so much pressure and it hurt in a way i didnt expect it to and thats about as far as he got. Then he felt bad and comforted me even tho it really didnt hurt all that bad. Turns out he put the condom inside out so the lube was in the inside🤦‍♀️😂. I was on top idk if thats why it hurt or not but anyone know good positions to try, i really want it to feel good😩. Did i lose my virginity??