Friends with benefits😶

So I met this guy and we were friends for a few months and I decided that since I was comfortable with him and we vibe well that we can add a lil intimacy in our friendship and see where things will go. We have AMAZING sex but I don’t want it to get stuck in the friendship stage because I ain’t gonna lie, I’m digging him a lot.. so we’ve discussed it and he said that he’s down to go with the flow and agrees with me. So, lately I’ve been noticing that he’ll purposely distance himself because he don’t wanna get too close so soon. But it’s like, I want it to so bad. Anyways.. we ended up talking about our situation after we dropped his brother off to the library. Now this is where it gets weird. Yes I met his mom, his brothers and step dad. His mom asks about me and even before we started being intimate he told her about me. So knowing that confuses me on whether or not he wants more. On February 8th I totaled my car in an accident but I didn’t find out it was totaled until Valentine’s Day. So he ask me if he can come by and I’m like.. “sure?” Lol. We’re both single so it was kinda weird to see him on Valentine’s Day. He pulls up in front of my home with flowers.. I was so confused but happy at the same time. He gave me a kiss and told me happy Valentine’s Day. He said his reasoning of buying the flowers was to cheer me up since I found out the news about my car. Idk if it was a friendly gesture or that he really cared. He wrote a note in the little card that said “To my lovely friend, white roses are a symbol of purity. Hopefully they cheer you up Lol. P.S. Don’t get emotional”. Not only did he pay attention that I adored roses. He was thoughtful. Anyways.. I just need some insight from someone else looking in. Thanks for reading my long cry for help lol.