Okay so my grandmother and i keep arguing over who gets to come to my baby shower(keep in mind shes not the one planning it). i dont want certain family members there because either they dont bother with me ever or whenever we come in contact they have something mean or negative to say. my grandmother thinks thats wrong and that i should invite them anyway. however, my grandmother doesnt get along with my other grandmother (fathers side) and doesnt want anyone from my other side of the family to come. i think shes being a hypocrite.