Maybe a leopard doesnt change its spots afterall.

Just ranting.

I’ve always been against the idea of once a cheater always a cheater. My husband has declared his love towards his cousin within our 1st year of marriage when I was pregnant with my firstborn, affair with co worker when I was having high risk pregnancy with my late daughter, and found out they contacted each other about 1 year+ later when we were TTC because her father passed away and she needed someone to “talk” to.

We both decided to go counseling (just 1 session because he didnt like the attitude the therapist was giving him) and everything was well since then. Until recently I found out he added his cousin (whom he declared love to) on facebook. I have no problem with him adding female colleagues what more family. But to add her I find is disrespecting me and disregarding my feelings considering there was history. I just gave birth to our 4th child 2 weeks ago. And my emotions are all over the place. I guess a leopard really doesnt change its spots.

Right now, he doesnt care that I know. That Im hurt and upset.