So glad I'm not pregnant!!
My husband and I had been ttc for over a year and I am officially done. He has shown his true fucking colors today. I am the ONLY one that ever takes care of our animals. He refuses to simply bath the dogs today when I am the one that always does it. I found out from my mom that when he is home and I am at work he will wait until 3 minutes until I get home to take them out to use the bathroom so they sit their all day long needing to go! And I just found out that at night when I ask him to feed the dog's he has been telling me he has been and he actually hasn't. I normally feed them, but when I work late he will tell me he fed them when he actually didn't. He also is supposed to feed his dog in the morning and he hasn't been doing that either. I literally do everything. Bathe the dog's & cat's. Trim their nails, brush their fur, feed them, clean the fish tanks, take them potty, play with them, literally everything except the litter boxes and he doesn't do that either, he just dumps the litter out and buys new litter to replace it. I can't even imagine what it would be like if we had a child. 😑
* My mom only knew the part about him to taking them potty. She knew because she was homeless and lived with us for a little while and while she was cleaning the house the whole day my husband wouldn't ever move from his spot on the couch.
I found out about him not feeding them because they were always so hungry when I came home and I noticed their food in their bins wasn't moving at all and staying at the same level.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.