Should your husband give you a back massage daily?

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I have been married for 7 years and barely get back massages a month.  In my previous relationships I was given them daily and I really need those.

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Ha ok. They aren’t mandatory. If you feel they are lacking and it’s something you would like a little more often, communicate with your SO. But you aren’t entitled to them 😑

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If this is a marriage vow, I haven't heard that one. He doesn't have to do it at all.

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It’s a...unusual requirement. Like all physical intimacy and contact it shouldn’t be expected or demanded. Just ask. If your husband says no, hire a masseuse.

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There is no requirement one way or another. I ask sometimes and sometimes I get... Do you give him massage daily?

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It would be nice but there's no "should" about it.

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I wish he would give me a massage but he's too scared of hurting me as I have arthritis in my neck x

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Definitely aren’t mandatory, I think of it more as a favour every once in a while. Don’t force it

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I’ve only ever asked since I’ve been pregnant .. on super bad days . And even before that my spine is crooked and fucked from a bad accident and I never asked . I don’t see it as mandatory or something I should even expect ever . I mean i don’t routinely go rub his back lol. So I don’t expect him to rub mine . Plus men are rough he’ll probably just fuck me up lol

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if you want a massage just ask him lol don’t make it seem like it’s mandatory, do you regularly massage him? lol

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I would talk with him about it and let him know how much you like back massages.

Should your husband give you a back massage daily?

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