Why does my boyfriend only want to have sex with me when he's drunk?

Question

My boyfriend isn't very sexaul while he is sober he kisses and holds me but never sex. I feel like there's somthing wrong with me or somthing. I try to give to get him turned on sober and it doesn't work? What can I do?

Answer

Communication is key! You have to talk with him and find out. He may feel more comferable with sexaul things while being intoxicated. It might feel weird talking to him about it but it will be better to see what's going on.

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Talk to him. He could be nervous when he's sober, maybe he lasts longer when he's drunk, etc.

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Communication I agree maybe he is shy I k ow I have been with guys who are more into sex and whatever when drunk or buzzed even when they seem so confident it's true they can be nervous just like us

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A drunk mans words/actions are a sober mans thoughts.

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Talk to him. I doubt that it's something
wrong with you. Sounds from just what you posted that maybe he has a hang up about sex? I don't think he'd stay with you if he didn't want to be with you. Talk to him and see if he'll open up about whatever is bothering him.

Why does my boyfriend only want to have sex with me when he's drunk?

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