Leaving team green 😐

Valorie
After riding my high horse about waiting to find out the gender of your baby until birth, i am going to find out the sex on vacation with my husband. He lost his sister to cancer on Monday so I've left the decision to wait or find out up to him. He's chosen to find out so we will be opening the envelope and taking gender reveal pictures on our vacation in Alaska. As much as i hate to find out early, i think this will help him feel better and make this vacation special so soon after such a big loss.
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Ca

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How thoughtful of you ❤️ I'm sure it will help warm your hubby's heart 😊

Ni

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I am so sorry for your loss! That's awful. Maybe he just wants to feel more connected to the baby after his loss. Holding on to the idea of having your child and possibly naming him/her early may give him peace. 

Al

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I think it's great you are going to give up what you wanted to help make him feel better!! Shows that you truely love him!! I also want to wait to find out, but my boyfriend does not. With me making so many of the decisions regarding the baby (breastfeeding or not, where/how to deliver, etc) I wanted him to feel included in the decision making. We find out on the 17th!!