To Baby or Not to Baby? 🤔

Question

My husband and I want more kids and the past 6 months I've been tracking my period here on Glow. AF is like clockwork but no baby ?! So I got an OPK and my LH didn't surge when predicted on this app, BUT! The next day after my ovulation day I got my smiley face!!!! I really want to have a baby and when I talked to my husband the other day he said babies are so hard. A lot of $$$, no sleep... a lot of $$$! lol .... he's having second thoughts almost, so what do I do now?

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Whoever said sneak attack .. I feel bad for yalls husbands. It takes TWO to decide you want another baby and ONE to decide you don’t want another!

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****** So hearing you ladies I realize how selfish I seem. And it is selfish, I didn't think of it that way. But I did listen to you ladies and decided to talk to my hubby and when I said I got a smiley face reading on the OPK he smiled and said, " get naked and go to the bedroom " lol but I stopped him and told him he didn't need to please me. Giving me what I want and not wanting the same. But he said he thought about our conversation and deep down he decided that he really wanted a baby too! So I guess we are officially trying for a baby!!!! 🤗 I would be so grateful to get pregnant now, a wonderful birthday present since I don't ever celebrate my birthday bc I have lost 3 very important family members on my birthday. Hopefully the stars align for my hubs and I!

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I have zero respect for women who baby trap men just because they want one. It’s not a light decision. If you’re planning to get pregnant when he isn’t sure, it’s going to lead to much bigger problems down the road than a little baby fever.

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Wait it out and talk to him about it. See what needs to happen for him to want a baby and make goals. Please, don’t force it on him. That will bring more problems

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In my opinion and it’s just my opinion...it’s not really a sneak attic if he knows your wanting a baby and he cums inside you not pulling out or protection.... just saying now if you lie and say your not ovulating and tell him it’s okay to cum in you....yea that’s pretty shitty and being untrustworthy partner...

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If he isn't ready it's not fair for you to push it with him. Sure you can talk about it but maybe wait a few months. And use protection. Do not sneak attack. That's super childish and mean

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