Possibly moving. Advice! Long post

Carolina

Hello! I am new to the <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.nurture">Nurture</a> community. I wanted to join because I’m struggling to feel supported during this time in our lives. My husband was just offered a new job in Nevada. (We live in/ are from South Carolina!!) It’s an INCREDIBLE opportunity for him, and they want him to start on April 30th. The baby is due June 7th, and I have had a very very easy and active pregnancy (so the physical aspects of moving don’t concern me too much). I’ve been able to continue teaching yoga several times a week along with working at my job at a children’s museum. (I love love love both jobs and both places so much.) I’ve been with my job at the children’s museum for close to two years and was actually recently asked to start managing the yoga studio where I teach. I feel like I’ve been offered some good opportunities here, but the opportunity in Nevada would be incredible for my husband. It’s close to Lake Tahoe and would be a really special and natural place to raise a baby. I’m struggling because the friends I have made here over the past two years are just starting to become really really close best friends, and I can’t stand the thought of leaving them. My family and hometown are just 3 hours away from where we live now, and my husband’s (wonderful) family lives 20 minutes away from us now. If we moved, the closest we’d be to anyone we knew would be 6 hours from my mom’s half sister. The other thing is our midwifery care here is so wonderful, and we just met our health insurance’s deductible. We’d have to totally start over with a new deductible and a new company and new prenatal care if we moved. I don’t really know what I’m asking. I guess for everyone to maybe weigh in. Has anyone ever done something like this in their experiences?