Tmi but queefing??

When I'm with a guy and I'm really wet when I spread my legs I queef not even after sex like before... Is that normal?? And I'm not like loose I've only had a sex a few times and even before the first time I had sex it happened when I spread my legs so he could put it in does that happen to anyone else? Should I be embarrassed?? I don't let guys go down on my because of it I don't want their head right there if I happens lol