Husbabd is fine, I'm not.

It's been 2 and 1/2 weeks since i miscarried naturally at 9 weeks.  And after a recent scan , they still think I'll need a d&c next week.   For me , I'm not only still physically going through this but I'm by no means over my grief.   For my husband it was upsetting the weekend it happened, he was good the first week after and now he just doesn't seem effected.  I try to save my crying for when he's at work. And do my best to act normal with him, cause it helps me get on and heal.   But I feel so alone in this now.   The other day I started crying and he seriously couldn't figure out why? He just kept saying "what's wrong?" I had to spell it out.    Is anyone else feeling alone in their grief?