When do I get excited?

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I had a miscarriage in October hardest thing I have ever been thru. Lost myself in it all even though I was barely 2 months it felt like I didn't know how to deal. I'm now 3 months doctor confirmed 4 times I'm doing good and healthy. Baby heart beat 150 right on development. But I'm so scared to get to happy and have it all taken away again.

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Once you feel reg movements well it was for me it felt like alot of stress went away as I could feel him now 22 weeks been feeling him since 17 weeks in saying that I was sick yesterday and he didn't move much and I panicked but checked with doppler and it got him moving so I guess in end it never truly goes away

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I liked this because this is my first child... And I have never had the misfortune of miscarrying, so unfortunately, I'm not sure how to relate there... However, up until I found out, I truly thought I couldn't get pregnant. I've always had weird period, sometimes none at all... My body's hormones are all out of whack all the time... 
2 days after finding out that I was, in fact, pregnant- I'm had some spotting and cramping and went to the ER. The doctor there, after US and bloodwork, told me to prepare for a mc. I was devastated. I had follow up bloodwork and saw my OB who basically told me the same thing- levels weren't rising like they should be, and prepared me for a BO or a mc. I went back on June 2 for another US and there was the baby... Heart beating away.. 140bpm. Which, the tech said was great and it was normal. Baby measured at 7wk1d and I cried. But I'm trying not to get too excited... I'm just now 8wk3d and I know I'm not out of the wood work yet... I don't want to get all happy and excited and start buying things... To end up Mc and be devastated... 
*sigh* I don't have another appt until June 25... And I'll be 10wk3d then. 
I wish I could be happy and excited too... 😥😢

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Aww I'm sorry you had that happen hun! This is my first time pregnant and it's still a huge fear of mine, and I don't think we're alone in that feeling! I know stress won't help, but I feel like being too excited won't either. I just aim for to be at peace! One day at a time :) When we first found out, we kinda wanted to tell people, but we knew holding off was better for us. Now at 10.5 weeks, it's been kind of fun sharing a secret with hubby! It's funny how many people are asking us about having kids, or maybe we just notice it now. Sharing those stories has helped take the focus from the worrying. And although we're very aware of the little person growing inside me, were mostly trying to concentrate on each other while we can. Call it a distraction, but it helps some! Best of luck to you, sending wonderful thoughts your way!

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I have lost 2 babies at around 12 to 14 weeks but I have 3 beautiful kids and now 25 weeks pregnant with my 4th I know how hard it is to lose one but don't let the your self stress to much I know it hard but it is also hard on the child ur carring to have a mother stressed as long as the doctors are keeping an eye and everything is looking good be + and enjoy this pregnancy

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I'm 30 weeks and we tried for 6 years and had 2 mc , I'm still scared out of my mind that something will go wrong I can't wait till he's in my arms and I can relax

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