Gaining SO much weight 😭

So I have pretty much gained 13 lbs and I'm 9 weeks. I'm SO upset and sad. My husband said something about it yesterday because he came to my appointment and heard my "pre-pregnancy weight" and then I had to step in the scale right in front of him. I'm so disappointed he would say something because I'm already paranoid all my clothes are super tight... It just makes me feel sad. My hubby is so awesome just a stupid guy sometimes. Please don't make rude comments about him. Has anyone else gained a lot...? 😭