Smh...need to let it out!!
My brother and his pregnant gf moved in to our house (my mom head of household, I have three younger siblings, then there's myself and my daughter).
I haven't worked since Jan, because the job I had wouldn't work around with my moms schedule and we'd have nobody to watch the kids, so I stayed home. Okay, that's that.
The reason my brother moved back in at home was because he lost his job and we told him he could come back if he gets a job and pays rent. That was in April and he barely got a job two weeks ago.
My mom had to pay his car insurance last week, $340!! She was supposed to pay rent on the 5, too! She told my brother she'd pay the insurance if he paid her that money for rent because she wasn't going to have any money to do so. He said yes of course. Well...he was supposed to give her the money yesterday and said idk if I'll have enough!! I'm just now going to start a job on Monday and I'm so stressed, I can only imagine how my mom feels! My brother says we don't want to help him when it comes to money but what he doesn't understand is that it's his gf, him and a baby (due next week!)
He got mad because I don't work...but my daughter's dad sends me money and I pay a bill with that money because I know it helps my mom out in a way and my brother says that's not enough help. Obviously not, and that's why he should step up. Idk how to get my mom to tell him anything, because when I tell her she needs to confront him she says I don't want drama. Wth are we going to do if we have no money for the rent smh
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.