6 Month Postpartum

I’m 6 month pp and every time I use the bathroom (#2) it hurts so bad to the point I’m almost in tears and I bleed a lot. It has happened since I first had my baby I used to take stool softeners but it didn’t help. I’m not ever constipated so I’m not sure why it hurts so bad. Has this happened to anyone?? I’m making a doctors appointment but not sure if I need to go to an OB or regular doctor.