Should I or should I not

Ch

The man I’m deeply in love with I have been with him for 3 years. When I first got with him in 2016 he told me he was just separated from his wife and in 2017 he told me they went to court for a divorce but it’s now 2018 and the divorce not finalize. I love this man with everything in me and we ready for a child of our own but I’m scared the divorce won’t get finalize cause of her. I don’t want to leave him cause he is great to me but I don’t know how much longer I can wait to make us public and ready to go straight to the courthouse to get married