So I had a MC on 5/5 after 2 1/2 years of trying. My cousins baby shower is tomorrow, and I've been dreading this since I heard she was expecting. I hate going to family gatherings because all I hear is "when are you going to have babies?!?!". I always respond when God decided it's the right time. I have a big family so I hear it constantly and it hurts. Now after the MC it's going to burn even more. My plan for tomorrow is if I hear that question from 3 or more people I'm leaving. I just want to scream out "we have been trying and it hasn't been easy!!! I just had a MC, stop asking me this shit! It's none of your business!!!!" How have you guys dealt with a nosey family or attending baby showers?!?!