My boyfriend of 6 months really wants to have anal. I think it might be a "another guy has been back there so I need to one up him and put my stick in it" kind of thing but I don't know. I don't know if I really want to have anal. Like it's weird and I'm very uncomfortable back there because I had a surgery 2 years ago and the pain medication made me lose feeling in the muscles back there for 11 days so I don't know. Like should I let him put it back there or no? Opinions?