frustrated and upset

Monique

I haven't announced my pregnancy yet. I'll be 17 weeks this Sunday. I have told close friends and family, but I'm holding back on announcing on social media. my cousin keeps posting hints and tagging me on fb. like articles videos about parents to be, ECT. last night she asked on fb, on a pregnancy post ,when is my

next ultrasound? I didn't see it till way later. I am always deleting her comments, tags and post to my wall. I call her every time and remind her to stop. she claims she forgets that I haven't announced yet. I keep reminding her, I'll announce once I find out gender and when I am ready, in my own way. I blocked her today because I was so upset. now I have my mom telling me, what's the big deal, why is it a secret? Its irritating that she ask. I shouldn't have to rush my announcemen because others can't keep a secret. pregnancy is 9 months long, so what's the big deal