What should I do?

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I was pregnant back in October and I was told it was a molar pregnancy so I had to have a D&C done. I was not supposed to be pregnant for an entire year. 6 months later I found out I was pregnant again and even saw the baby at 6weeks. But the doctor told me I would miscarry because my levels were low. Now I'm 10 weeks and heard the heartbeat already. I'm excited but my sister in law is causing all types of problems.

My fiancées sister and his brothers girlfriend are both pregnant right now also and his sister is making a big deal about my pregnancy because of the risks since my molar and my misscarriage. She is always making snide comments about how our baby won't be healthy and have tons of problems. She is always commenting on the fact that we are both just 19 and not old enough.

What she doesn't realize is yes I know that I am putting myself in danger with my pregnancy and it's not like we planned this. I may have had a molar pregnancy but I don't need her to make her comments about my unborn baby. And she needs to realize that she is putting herself in just as much danger with her pregnancy from having two abortions and getting pregnant right after the second.

I can't keep my fiancée or baby, when born, away from his side of the family but I don't know what to do when his sister starts her comments and bitching. 
What should I do?

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Its your choice to keep your child. Its incredibly rude of her to even suggest that you should do something you dont fwel comfortable doing. I would lay it out for her point blank. Tell her to mind her own!

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Honestly, it may be difficult, but just avoid her and her drama as much as possible. And when she says things it sounds like she's just trying to draw attention to herself so maybe just say something along the lines of "I hear that you have an opinion on the matter" and leave it at that and move on to another subject. Truly it's not something she should have an opinion in, just acknowledge that she had an opinion and move on. If you make a comment back its just going to go back and forth and not get anywhere. Eventually she will notice she isn't getting anywhere and hopefully keep it to herself.

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Screw her

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Sounds like she needs a shovel to the face, but this could be the hormones talking...😞

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Sounds like you have a stressful situation. What does your fiancé say? As hard as it is I would try to just ignore her and avoid her right now. You don't need the added stress.

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Why she dont mind her f@@king business it have a saying dont put salt in ppl rice wen your pot up to i would just tell her because if she making u hurt let her know hw u feel and if she have nothing good to say shut the f up omg i was 19 wen i had my first after a mc and she will be 6 this year im now on #2 and everything were find congrats and good luck hun dont stress!!

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