Hey Ladies,

I’m feeling a bit down. I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years with a guy that didn’t want to commit/marry me and ever guy that comes into my life just wants to have sex with me if wants the date but no titles thing and it’s really discouraging. Discouraging in the sense that there aren’t any guys out there that are genuine and that I’ll just be alone forever....or maybe I just have really high standards..... I’m 22, young I know, but when all you ever wanted was to be loved and grow with someone in marriage but all you do is get sexualized it makes me emotionally distant.

Anyone been in this situation before, how long did you “wait” or did you have to lower your standards?