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I find myself playing louder music and having a flashlight, and putting it on my stomach just to make my baby move. Sometimes she moves hella alot and the days she doesn't, I start stressing and make my boyfriend come try to get her to move. I do it just to make sure she's alive like I know it probably sounds crazy but I seriously stress when she doesn't move. I even feel for that deep spot and cuffing the back of my hand and pushing against her just to feel a little shake or her heartbeat. My boyfriend says I'm over reacting and if she doesn't want to move, she isn't going to. Am I just over reacting and overthinking it too much ?