So I've been with my husband for going on 4 years. He says he's not into sex, like he doesn't care for it. And of course I am a very sexual person, I want it at least once a day he can go months without it. We have went 6 months without it before because he wasn't in the mood. what are some ways I can help change this? we fight all the time about sex. I have told him even if we have it once a week I would fine with it. most of the time we go a month a two before we have sex. I am tired of being the one having to give up something I like because he doesn't like it. It's not fair to me. i have been the one that has given it up and not getting it as much as id like just so he can be happy. what are some ways to change this? he won't go yo Dr to get his T level tested.