So recently ive been feeling differen emotions lately. But idk if it’s because I’m on birth control (implant on the arm ) It’s almost a month that I had it in my arm . Last week I was stressing about my exams and since than I’ve been really emotional to the point I’m doubting my relationship and everything else .. I’ve been so bitchy to my family ( honestly I feel trouble!) About my relationship, we’ve been together for a year now but we’ve dated before. Anyways he lives 1-2 hours away and we see each other once a week. I met his mom maybe like a 2 months ago and I felt like she didn’t acknowledge me , like if I was nothing .... he didn’t even introduce us because he was mad at his mom !!!! Like wtf !!!! But the vibe I got from her was like “I wasn’t good enough for her son” . I feel like most parents wanna know who their kids date ? Right ?? I mean I would wanna get to know my kids girlfriend/ boyfriend! !! But she hardly talked to me ... she doesn’t even ask about me or anything... Idk if I’m overthinking it but I’m doubting my relationship... I’ve been asking myself “is this gonna Work out ?” There’s many other reasons why ... he doesn’t work , he rely on his mom , I feel like he’s not responsible or independent. He doesn’t pay bills so I feel like he doesn’t “struggle “ I feel like his mom is selfish because I couldn’t have him on Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> or day and I couldn’t have him on New Year’s <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> or New Year’s Day ( is actually our anniversary) but she wants him and it’s like dude you had him for 21 years and every fucking holidays!! Why cant I have him this one time !!

Today March 10 is his 22nd birthday , I told him in November ( 4 months ahead from now ) that don’t plan anything and tell your mom I want you on your bday and tel her to not plan anything ... everything was going good , I had the money for his bday ... next thing you know he tells me his mom is doing a birthday party in his bday !!! I was so pissed !!! I basically gave up planning things because when he has something plan I drop my plans with my family or friends just to see him .. I told my manager that my plans got canceled and I could work . I didn’t want to go to his party because one I was pissed and second why go when I don’t feel comfortable with his mom ...

After work 8:30pm we talked on the phone but he sounded moody asf and that even made it worse , I wanted to tell him “ are we really gonna make this work ?” But it’s his bday and honestly I didn’t want to make it worse ..... so I know this is hella long but I need some help ... what would you do ?? How would you tell him ?? Is it worth handling ??