Dry Spell

I am 6 months pregnant, and my husband and I haven’t had sex since Valentine’s Day. Even that was a “quick oral session”. ☹️

Before Valentine’s Day, it had been just over 2 weeks since we had sex.

I’ve told my husband several times how long it’s been but he doesn’t seem to care. I feel like he’s not attracted to me when I have a baby bump.

Last night I was dreaming that I was having a threesome with my husband, and someone else that I can’t remember, because I don’t think I even ever saw their face. I don’t even remember if it was another guy, or a girl.

In my dream, I wasn’t pregnant anymore (or at least not showing) and he said “I know how long you’ve been waiting for this.” He started undressing and kissing me, and once my shirt and bra were off, the third person slid their arms around mine to pin them behind me, then leaned back on the bed so I was restrained against the third person’s chest on the bed.

My husband started sucking on my nipples and easing my pants off...

AND THEN MY DOG WOKE ME UP!

😫😫😫

I can’t even get off in my dreams!!!!!

I’m starting to get to the point where I’m afraid to make a move because he’ll reject me, and I don’t know that I can handle that.

I sent him a racy snap while he was buying a few things we needed for dinner and asked if he had any plans for dessert. The snap was a closeup of my chest in one of my lingerie bras.

He texted me back with:

But never mentioned it again. I told him that subtleties haven’t been working so I figured I’d try a more up front approach. Still, he didn’t reply.

I figured it was a lost cause and I wasn’t getting any tonight.

Fast forward to after dinner, he called me in the bedroom to help him put some aquaphor on his newest tattoo (he can’t see it well). I thought nothing of it because I’ve helped several times.

I went into the bedroom and he shut the door (to keep our nosey dog and cat out), turned off the lights and started kissing me. I was SO excited!

The sex itself wasn’t our best to be honest...I didn’t have an orgasm, but it did feel good still.

I was more excited that we did anything sexual at all, so tonight, I don’t even care that I didn’t come! Hopefully this breaks the dry spell and we can get back into a more regular sex routine.