sexual dreams

I don't have these dreams often but, my bf told me he had a sexual dream and I was in it. so later I fell asleep and dreamt that I was being touched (sexual) and it was not him and it felt like rape. Every time I dream like that it's rape but when he's in my dream we just hold hands, kiss and when we get ready for sex I wake up...am I the only one? is that odd? lol I'm confused