How do you feel about your boyfriend/husband/SO watching porn?

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My boyfriend has admitted to me that he watches porn. I honestly don’t know how to feel about it. Like part of me is okay - like I  can’t tell him what to do. But then the other part of me makes me feel like, am I just not good enough? What do you ladies think?

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I don't care at all. We both watch it separately and together. It's never interrupted our sex life and never caused our marriage issues. We still have sex at least 5 days a week, usually multiple times so idgaf🤷‍♀️

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in my relationship at least, watching porn isn’t either of us saying “wow, i sure wish i could fuck this person!” it’s just a visual. that’s it. not a big deal

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To me it’s like fantasizing about someone else while in a relationship. I regard it as cheating even though it isn’t physical. Cheating doesn’t have to be physical. My experience as well as the experience of others who I’ve talked to is that it pulls people away from intimate relationships. It’s possibly worth it to talk to him and maybe help him past it, but you’re also dating so there is less commitment required.

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Our relationship is secure, and we have trust, so it’s never been an issue. I’m not insecure, and neither is he. It’s not interfering in any way with our sex life - in fact, it’s helped in some areas!

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Honestly we all gotta get off; sometimes just orgasming without a partner is just the way to go.

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I don't care if my boyfriend watches porn & he knows that.

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I watch more than he does 😂 but he doesn’t know 🤪 I know he watches too but he thinks I don’t know. It’s our privacy....people can watch what they want. Not everyone feels like having sex when they’re horny, some of us just want to rub and be done with it 😂

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I don’t really care if my boyfriend watches porn. He and I know it’s just pornstars that fake their orgasms so it’s not a big deal.
Plus, my boyfriend doesn’t even watch porn; I do and he knows it and doesn’t care 😂

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It’s different for every couple but for me it’s just something that we actually bond over not because we want to have sex with them just like watching them having sex but it could be different

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honestly, both my boyfriend and I watch porn (sometimes together) and it's not really a big deal. it's just something to get off to, and we all have to do that every now and then

How do you feel about your boyfriend/husband/SO watching porn?

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