ok I have a problem. My fiance and I have been together for over 5 years. he insists when I'm on my period to give him bj's. I'm not comfortable with this. I feel like a woman on her period has enough to deal with without having to give bj's unreciprocated . i love him and I don't mind pleasing him. The main problem is he won't accept that I have my period but still need to be pleasured. it should be a shared thing. period sex isn't horrible and it's part of nature. why if I please him can he not please me in return and maybe relieve some of my cramps In the process.