Fixing my sex life , help

My husband and I've been together for 2 years and married for only 1 out of the 2 years, we have had 4 , miscarriages the most recent one happen in April , today my husband call me on my way to work saying y I stopped being freaky and spontaneous, he likes for me to ride him and he loves making love with the lights on, I hate them both , plus I'm plus size, I don't feel comfortable being naked in front of him , what can I do to spice up our relationship , in the beginning we even had sex at the park even Valentine's day of this year on a weekend cruise , I gave him a lap dance with hand cuffs and chocolate covered strawberries , please people helpppppppp