currently 33 weeks pregnant and stressing about having to move to a different state after giving birth and find a job, take care of family, etc...

now call me crazy, hubby is the only one working, daughter still in daycare, wanted to keep sense of normalcy, especially with impending move...

anyways, money wise, things have been tight..hubby just told me he wants to buy $200+ item fir his mother...I'm like why can't it wait? does it have to be right now?? we will have moving expenses, taxes, baby, etc...now is simply not the time! he responded with, well it's his mother!

I'm tired of the only one worrying about our financial situation and wonder why I'm always the bad guy...now I get why some people operate on HIS / HERS / OURS.... seemingly dysfunctional at best.

any thoughts on how to handle all this!?