Okay so I’m 23, and I’m a lesbian. I’m supposed to get a blood test soon and one of the things they’re checking is my hormones. Lesbians normally have higher testosterone levels than straight girls, because that’s how we’re born and that’s part of what makes you attracted to girls.

I’m out to my mom, but I’m scared that if my testosterone level is at higher than your average straight girl she’ll just go insanely mad and tell me I have to lower it, and that’ll make me straight... which is stupid. If my testosterone level is in the range of your average straight girl for some reason, I’m sure my mom would tell me “see, I told you that you’re confused. You’re not gay.” Like I’m just super anxious about this. I’m scared that all the doctors who see this test in the future (if the testosterone level is high), will think there’s something wrong with me and they have to change me.

Help?? Idk what to do