MIL issues...

Trying to figure out how to deal with my feelings in a healthy way before I react emotionally. I have a 15 month old daughter, and I'm currently 38 weeks pregnant with baby girl number two! For this entire pregnancy I have been trying to be the best mom I can be. I am high risk and have an umbilical hernia so I can't lift my daughter up constantly. She is the best kid ever and doesn't complain much. She's very independent already as far as playing and eating and letting me know when she needs something. My husband and I have both asked family and friends to respect our views on how we parent our daughter and everyone seems to be helpful except his mother. In saying that, it's gotten to a point where she is the only one who does anything and everything my daughter wants her to do. So now, it doesn't matter what we're doing or who is around. If MIL is in eye shot, no one else matters. She doesn't care if I'm there or not. She doesn't listen to me or my husband and it's starting to really hurt my feelings. Now with number two on the way, I'm scared she's going to completely take over with my first daughter and I'm about to completely lose my shit! I ask her not to do something and the next time we go to visit she does it right in front of me. If hubby won't say shit even though his mouth is full of it, what do I do?! 🤦🏼‍♀️

Frustrated New Mom...