I’ve got a friends w benefits, let’s call him T. And we hookup about once a week and have been for the past 2 months. Every time we do it I would say it’s pretty good. Nothing crazy spectacular but it gets the job done. We are friends, have many mutual friends who don’t know, and coworkers so we see each other often. I want to know any tips to make our sex better or change it up? Seriously, when we have conversations about 90% of the time it’s about hooking up next or sex. (How I like it to stay) He seems so also say he will do things like get rougher over text, but never does in person. How do I improve this??