Dealing with other people ??

Question

So I’m a nurse i Work at a hospital ( the same
Hospital i see my OB & maternal specialist ). My boss knows I’m having triplets.  Im float pool so i work a diff floor daily! Everyone is being great since they have me on life & isolation restrictions BUT I’m so tired of others advice! So many people telling me how i need to gain more weight for 3 babies or oh i bet your good since you have nothing to compare this pregnancy too. How much have you gained? Your not gonna Work much longer right? I’m 10 weeks! I plan on working till i cant anymore! How do i handle people like this?

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I’m a PA and I work in the same ER as the hospital where I’ll deliver. They don’t take me seriously when I say I want to work until my water breaks and then just go upstairs, but maternity leave is not paid, soooo.....  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 
I will say that the twin pregnancy has been rough compared to my super easy singleton pregnancy and I’ve had to move a little slower sometimes, but I’m still seeing more patients than some of these docs I work with.

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Don’t. You have complete control who you give your energy to and who you allow to alter yours. They aren’t carrying those babies you are. Put them in their place or simply ignore them. Easier said than done of course. I’m currently 25 weeks with twins and I get crazy comments all the time. I either shit them down or ignore them. Not going a full 9 months dealing with that 🤷🏽‍♀️
Congratulations on your 3 cuties ❤️

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i took peoples negative comments and made it a challenge. im a nurse in a prison and no one thought id work as long as i did or keep running to codes or be able to keep up with everyone. it became my mission to prove them wrong. it kept me healthier and it kept me going at work. yes later in my pregnancy i had to augment my work but i made up for it in other areas.

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Smile and nod and do whatever the heck you want.

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I am nurse and I have 11month old(9adjusted) triplets. I was able to work until 25w, when I went into pre-term labor and quit working. I wanted to work until I could not. I delivered at 31w4. I am blessed with them everyday. I am back at work but love my days with them, the good, the bad and the hard. There is a secret Facebook group for triplet moms die in 2018. I wpuls join, they are a great support system. You need to friend Belle triplet and I think day you are due in 2018

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I planned to work up till almost 38weeks with my first and had a casual staff member who I didn’t really know tell me that I wouldn’t be able to and I would finish way before that all because she couldn’t... bitch please... I made it all the way up to there easily and I think I could have made it till I dropped even (if I’d wanted to) you just have to smile and nod and ignore them to keep the peace or if you don’t give a stuff about that just tell them that’s it’s none of their business and the moment it becomes their uterus you’d be happy to accept their input

Dealing with other people ??

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