having 3 regret it?

Question

hey girls! I have 2 boys ones 4 ones 2 and I'm ready for another ! But I'm not sure my husband's always working so ill be doing everything myself like I've always done .. any mommys out there wish they would of waited for another or is it not as overwhelming as it feels ? Thanks

Answer

I have 3 young children (5,2 and 10 months) also 9 weeks pregnant. Really not as crazy as I thought it would be. I’m a 24/7 stay at home mom, husband works and only here 2 days out of the week. He gets home in time for dinner and bed shortly afterwards. I do everything on my own. I wanted them close in age because I have a cut off age (30, I’m turning 29). Then they can grow up and I get to have my me time after they are too busy for me. 
I thought it was going to be so hard throwing another child in the mix. It wasn’t in my experience. Now to get the 5 year old to clean....  now that feels impossible!

Answer

I have a 10yr old 5yr old and a little guy who will soon be 2. It's crazy loud and overwhelming at times but it's definitely doable. Both Hubby and I work full time jobs and are off on the weekend and are home by 530. Life is crazy but full of love. I won't be that corny so if you want the truth, it's doable but a struggle if you and him aren't ready financially emotionally and if you relationship isn't solid the stress of the kids can start chipping at the foundation of your relationship so think about it. your kids now need attention and if you aren't able to spare some time for the 2 of you now then maybe you may want to wait until they are a little more independent. If you are strong willed and emotionally strong then go for it. You know your relationship and your kids needs and how muuch you can stretch yourself so evaluate everything and picture life with and without 3 kids. I can tell you that sometimes when the older ones need something and hubby busy and I'm cooking and my son wants mom i want to run away and drink a tequila shot  lol but that's life with or without 2 or 3 or even 1 kid sometimes even without kids lol.

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