Am I overreacting?

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Did I just assume he wanted an abortion or was it implied? I just need an outsider perspective

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No you're not overreacting. Yes it was implied. Sounds like regardless he doesn't want anything to do with it.

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You didn’t assume and it wasn’t implied. He made it quite clear he doesn’t want you to have this baby. What a dick wad.

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He wants you to abort it, or at least that's what I'm getting from it. Bottom line: this is your decision to make, not his. His last say in this was the day/night he decided not to wrap it up, everybody knows that birth control isn't 100% (I have a bc baby myself) You're not comfortable with aborting, do not let him pressure you. That'll take the weight off of him and leave you with a burden of regret, which screams selfishness on his part. You're not overreacting luv, he's an asshole.

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I feel like you overacted in the beginning because he seemed to be just trying to have the necessary conversation with you. 
After a bit, you handled it very well. 
Btw. What you do, is not up to him. He can have his input but ultimately it was your decision.
Good luck with the babes!

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I found this exchange to be very childish. Definitely sad situation to be bringing new life into. I understand accidents happen but now you both are going to have to step up and part of that includes communication.

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I mean he’s allowed to have an opinion. I don’t understand this whole “men have no say” thing. He’s freaking out, he doesn’t want a kid. He’s trying to get information from you. Seems like he was just trying to have a conversation about the whole thing and getting info. He was giving you his side of what he thinks of the situation.

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I think he thinks an abortion is best but I don't know if that's what he actually wants

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Definitely not overreacting. It’s clear that he doesn’t want the baby. But you should do what you think is best for you, regardless of what he has to say.

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To me it just seemed like he was trying to have a conversation about the whole thing. You absolutely do not have to get an abortion, but you also can’t force him to take part in this if he doesn’t want to. You guys aren’t together and having a baby is going to make your relationship any better. I think he’s just trying to tell you that if you feel comfortable raising this baby alone, then go ahead. He just isn’t trying to give you any false hope that he will be involved.

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I didn’t read it all but I read half. He seems like a jerk. St first maybe you did get a little huffy but you apologized and then he started being rude.

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