Hey ladies,

So after all the garbage with my kidneys, I was also told yesterday that on my last baby ultrasound, the Nuchal gold was thicker than they’d like to see. Like I needed any more bad news after being hospitalized for my kidneys. I thought this was something typically detected way earlier, like in the first trimester? We did the genetic blood screening as well in the first tri and came back hugely negative for everything, so I’m just wondering if there’s a cause for concern here?

I never thought I would feel this way, but as a FTM, I’m seriously considering not doing this again. This pregnancy has been so traumatic for both my husband and I.