To all the women in unstable relationships out there, don't go and get married because you are pregnant! I've seen many a guy who went and married a women they had knocked up just so they could legally pretty much take the baby, then divorce the women after the baby was born! Check your state laws! (They are all different!) if you are NOT married in many states when the child is born, then the mother automatically has presumably custody. Let him be there for you during the pregnancy, gave him in the delivery room, but wait until AFTER the baby is born to say "I Do" (just say you want to look good in your wedding dress or something!)