So I’ve been off the pill since June 17 after 10+ years. TTC 1st baby with husband.

Both of us are 27 and have finally got ourselves in a stable position financially and have very good jobs (I’m a children’s nurse and he’s in IT).

Was hoping that we would be those couples that conceive instantly. As months have gone on and on nothings happened and I just feel so upset with it all. Every month I get questions which just makes me feel worse and reminds me of my failure.

Started preseed and on second cycle using it to no avail yet. Something else that everyone hails as a miracle.

All I want to do and have ever wanted to be is a mother and feel so hopeless that I’m not going to be that anytime soon.

Anyone else experience this and have any advise?