Is secretly flirting and texting someone cheating?

I caught my husband texting a girl behind my back again. He admitted that it was flirtatious, they had planned to meet but he wasn't going to go through with it, he deleted all the text and hid her number under a guys name, I just had his baby (now 4 mos old)... He said it's not cheating... thoughts?

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