so I kinda wish my family wouldn't have jumped into a shower planning event. they put all kinds of money and time into getting things for a baby shower, they made all the decorations blue. months before finding out what the baby would be. once they found out it was a girl they cancelled it. I'm kinda mad, but kinda not. I already have one girl. a lot of our things we kept of hers had to be thrown out due to a severe mold issue we had at our last rental home we lived at. so I'm kinda mad being that a second shower would've helped a little. my family is so disappointed it's, another girl. they said nobody would show up to a shower for a second baby girl because mom's are only meant to have one baby shower their whole lives no matter how many kids they have.