Recently ended a year+ long relationship. Also recently got back in touch with an old friend(?). I say friend with a question mark cause we’ve had a fairly complicated past. I guess you could say it’s been a friends with benefits type of situation, but he has asked me to be his girlfriend before. I only turned him down because it was around the time I was getting over another past relationship and I just didn’t feel ready to move on just yet. He understood and we remained great friends. This time around it’s pretty much the same situation. Lots of flirty texts, even more sexual tension. But this time around he’s making more of an effort to call me “pretty” And “cute” and how he “can’t stop thinking about me” as opposed to calling me “hot” and “insatiable”. We’ve planned to hang out later today and he’s referred to it as “our date” numerous times. I wouldn’t be opposed to having some sort of relationship with him. But after recently ending the most serious relationship I’ve ever had, I don’t think I’m emotionally ready to jump back into another relationship just yet. I’m considering asking him to DTR (define the relationship), but I’m also torn between going with the flow. Not putting so much pressure into this thing that we have, and just letting a relationship progress naturally for once in my life. That was one of the biggest issues in my previous relationship. Yeah, I’m completely torn on what to do. 😕