First - does he deserve to have you? If not, then don't even bother wasting time with the king treatment if he is not already treating u like the queen.

But, if he is doing right and u are being generous in wanting to spoil him, then here's what u do to make him remember it.

1 go find yourself some sexy af lingerie that makes u feel like super hot and fabulous when u put it on.

Bare Necessities has a good & affordable product range, also Victorias Secret of course.

Lesson: Do not accidentally get fooled into wearing some ridiculous costume like a little maid outfit that he likes, but that u don't feel comfortable in.

Why? Because a woman should dress only to please herself, and that includes choosing lingerie that she likes & feels like a total goddess in. There's instant confidence!

Anything less than that, she will not like it and it will take the confidence away. No no !

2 Find some outrageously sexy heels that are only to be worn in the bedroom. HOT!

Lesson: This does Not include some hideous boring work shoe that u would only wear for a job interview.

I'm talking about getting yourself a pair of "Fuck Me Shoes".

Every woman has at least 1 pair, if not several: The black satin ankle strap platforms, the red patent leather pump, the strappy sandal that ties up the leg, etc.

However, do not get the clear platform stripper shoe, they are cheap and look good on absolutely nobody (also the plastic rips and gives blisters; that is not sexy).

3 While dressed up in lingerie and heels, just look at yourself in a floor length mirror. See how fine u are? Now Go Practice walking into the room like u own it. This is key!

Lesson: Walking around using the mirror will help u to see how u move (and therefore how your guy will see you), so you practice alone for awhile, until u can waltz in the door with such confidence and balance on 5 inch heels wearing some red little outfit, and your man will soon be on his hands and knees begging to get with u! Half the fun is making a dramatic entrance when they least expect it.

While he's down on his hands and knees from the sexy surprise of seeing how fine u are - you are allowed to get sassy here in your position of power - just tell him to blow you.

Ha! It works every time.

That's right, you just told him what u want, and he should be smart here to shut up and obey your wishes. If not, he can leave.

You know who own the room like that? Beyonce.

Look at her "Partition" video on Youtube, it's full of gorgeous lingerie and shoes and is filmed in such strong and empowering way.

Lesson: Being a woman is a beautiful thing, know that you are powerful, really own who you are, and don't make any apologies about it.

Now get out there and work it!! 🙌🏽

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