What would you do?

Victoria

So my baby daddy sent me a text saying that I’m just a dumb girl who won’t get an abortion and that really hurt because I genuinely care about him also I don’t know what guy would ever say that to the mother of his child like I respect him so I have no idea why he doesn’t respect me but I’m done trying to be respectful for him because he crossed a line sending that text so should I still let him in the delivery room? Also should I have the baby take my last name because he said I’m responsible to buy everything and I’m gonna be the one who takes care of the baby 24/7 so I feel like he doesn’t deserve to give the baby his last name since he doesn’t want to do anything. Please let me know what I should because I’m torn!🤦🏽‍♀️