Feel like my kids deserve better

Through the week my fiancé works, so I don’t complain about all the tasks with our kids left on me, I get it, his tired & needs rest. But just one morning I would love to wake up to something as small as the dishes done, or a hot coffee on the bench to awaken me from my tiredness. Weekends; I’d love if he could take Atleast one child to the shops with him, or to the ‘plans’ he has made w/ friends & his family, or scratch that and spend the day with our kids, at home or out and about. Take them to the family wedding, birthday party, Mummas deserve rest too! Every single time I leave our home our kids are with me, we go shopping, we go have lunch, we go to school & we go to the parks, we even go on holidays or weekends away WITHOUT my fiancé, he likes to stay home because his ‘too tired’ from work but ALWAYS has time for his friends & his family . Feeling like crap as Rn his at a family wedding he didn’t even bother to pretend he wanted to take our kids. But then there’s me, always without a choice . Feeling like I needed to vent, feeling like my kids deserve better 💕 than what he gives them & time he spends on them . How do I deal with this situation pls ladies xx