Has anyone else dealt with losing the spark in your relationship after having kids and moving in together? Have you been able to fix it and if so, how? I feel like my husband and I have have lost our spark. Everything feels so mundane and sometimes I just feel like we're coparents that live together and have sex maybe once or twice a month. My husband suffers from low sex drive due to hypothyroidism so when I try to seduce him after the baby is in bed he usually just doesn't care. He says he loves me and is attracted to me but he just doesn't have the energy to give me the passion and romance I'm longing for. I try to tell him that our spark is gone and how to fix it (being more romantic with flowers, little gifts, date nights, passionate sex, etc) and he acts like he understands me and he'll work on it with me but then he never does. I feel like it's an issue I being up all the time but I can't help it because it's really affecting me and the love I feel for him...